Now, Know Your Value ,Be you - Ultimate Excellence

Now, Know Your Value

Now, Know Your Value and The Risk of Self-pity and self-disapproval

These two end up killing both the body and the soul. Many people, especially the youth refuse to accept themselves, accept their parents, their learning institutions and even their friends. They never appreciate what is within their life. They don’t value themselves. They don’t value those around them. They end up having life without value.

When one fails to have self-esteem that he can make it, then he will be reluctant to try out anything because of the fear of failing. These kinds of people have already fixed their destiny; they have already concluded who they are even before they know who they are. They take all that is good in themselves and in others foNow, Know Your Value - Ultimate Excellencer granted. Ignorance makes them feel useless and empty.

Most of the people who have succeeded in life and those who can be called men and women of value are full of self-respect. They are not moved by mistreatment, not configured by their environment and they are always optimistic. It is a reality that if you think you can, you will surely manage but if you think you can’t then you will certainly not make anything out of yourself.

Love for yourself, should not depend on what you have or what you don’t have because it is purely unconditional. Unless you learn to be contented in life and being happy and joyful in what your life offers as you cultivate for more, you will always have a mood of contempt and hatred towards your own life.

Now, Know Your Value and create happiness; you don’t buy it

Remember that only God, is above you when it comes to the control of your life. People may not be willing to share their happiness with you, but God will position you where you will have it in abundance. Happiness is not found, it is created! You have to Now, Know Your Value and create yours.

Happiness is not absence of tribulations and horrible things in life; it is when you love yourself and trust that God has you in His hands-You are in His program.No one is in charge of your happiness except you. Be happy about your life and rejoice that you have a great future to experience; otherwise no one is interesteNow, Know Your Value, happiness- Ultimate Excellenced in that.

Material happiness is just like a filthy, polluted river because it is a mere reflection of the TRUE happiness in the spiritual world. We can never achieve the happiness we are looking for no matter how hard we endeavor in material life. Instead we should look upwards, toward God, who is the source of real happiness, and stop chasing after the reflection of this happiness in the material world. This spiritual happiness is the only thing that can satisfy us completely.

Storm Jameson once said “Happiness comes from the capacity to feel deeply, to enjoy simply, to think freely, to risk life and to be needed. The way to happiness is to keep your heart free from hate and your mind from worry”. Live simply, expect little, and give much. Fill your life with love. Scatter sunshine. Forget self, think of others. Do things the way they should be done. As the golden rule goes: Treat others the way you would like to be treated. Show respect to those who deserve and to those who don’t deserve, it from you-this makes the difference. Happiness is born when a difference is made.

Excerpt from Fashioned for Life by Samuel Kanja , Trainer,Life Coach & Author

Fashioned for Life

Fashioned for Life Book Cover Fashioned for Life
Samuel Kanja
Christian Motivational
Evangel Publishing House
2012
Hardcover
224

It’s not a secret that you are awesome!

Life can be confusing and tasteless and in many circumstances, we feel we are experiencing the worst and having the least. What can really make the difference? Your life is not poisoned. It’s not a curse! It’s not a punishment. If you knew that you are the greatest gift and blessing the world could get from God, you would sincerely love your life, live it proudly and avoid embarrassments by embracing all circumstances. God is neither a fool nor a liar! He keeps his promises of greatness and only his grace can make the difference. His grace calls for our co-operation and commitment. God has your story written down and his favor follows you wherever you go because no one deserves his goodness.

Fashioned for Life is a voice to all and is intended to equip you with pillars of life which are taken for granted but they can make your life stand out regardless of what comes your way. The world has conditioned us through its systems but we cannot remain slaves when freedom is with us and within us. It is a crusade of acknowledging that life is a gift-precious and marvelous. This book will enable you to be concerned with what can be and not what is. It provides a platform of valuing your life and trusting that you can manage it to get the best that God puts in you. By carefully reading this book, you will have an opportunity to be reunited with your life, restored, contented and then stepping forward towards greatness.

Fashioned for Life has what it takes to refresh your life and makes you see a new dawn of your life by having faith that you can be taken from a pit to the palace like Joseph. Unless we understand the basics of life, it will always be hard to appreciate it. Life was meant to be fulfilling and a series of moments of experiencing God’s goodness. However, people have changed its definition through disbelief and loss of hope at early stages or doing nothing and expecting the best. You have God’s signature and approval and you don’t have to fear the world of uncertainties if you only trust in God and be in action.

The principles that this book will propagate include but are not limited to the following:

• Being in touch with your purpose

• Creating quality space for God and people in your life

• Having conducive attitudes and knowing your territory

• Following the right paths and greater principles

• Knowing the wells of life and being positioned

• Seeing life as a blessing and loving it

• Expecting the best and never giving up no matter what!

• Understanding God’s Law of “Nothing is impossible”

It’s my wish that Fashioned for Life will replenish your mind with winning thoughts and help you recalculate your dreams, re-energize your strategies and give you a new look. As you read this book, remember that God loves to be a magnifier and multiplier. That’s why he created only a man and a woman but expected them to fill the earth. Let’s all bring our efforts, lives and dreams to God so that he can refine them with greatness. The writing of this book began in my mind in the early days of my youth. I have been having experiences in my own life, and from other people, especially fellow youths, parents, friends, employees, and my fellow Christians. They have watered this idea to this point of germination. Most people are living in their own world, full of desperations, discouragements, self-hatred, solitude, misery, and irresponsible living for paltry reasons.

Most people are not in good terms with their lives; they have surrendered to what the world dictates. On the contrary, those who are having joy in their life have failed to significantly impact on the jeopardized lives of others .I believe that life was, is and will always be meant to be good for all. Let us all crawl, walk, and run to our destiny! I hope that this book will bless all those who will read it and the message of hope channeled to all those who need it at the right time before all gets lost. Better light a candle than curse darkness.

I recommend this book to every person who seeks to get more out of their life by changing their perspective on life.

Work Life Equilibrium - Ultimate Excellence

Work Life Equilibrium

Are employees Really “Living”?

Work Life Equilibrium is really wanting as people seek employment to improve their lives. Unfortunately, many compromise themselves, thereby failing to focus on life in its broader sense. Job is just one aspect of life, SAMUEL KANJA lays it bare.

Work Life Equilibrium - Ultimate ExcellenceI take this opportunity to address critical issues, which need to be addressed and internalized by critical minds, which are open to reality. You are living for a purpose and your purpose is defined. You have what it takes to move your life not only to the next level but also to the highest level possible! Everything that happens in life is part of life but it’s not life itself. Education is part of life. Your family and friends are part of your life and your job is…. also part of your life.

One mistake that most of us make and fail to learn from is thinking that our lives are part of our job. It may look off the line but that’s how most of us look at it. We have a duty to be diligent and vibrant at the workplace at all times because we are ultimately serving people, but this should not be an excuse to forget that we will not live forever.

Don’t start living when you retire because you might not have all the time to see the essence and sense of life! Life is not defined by the work you do but why you do it! Work is not measured by the coins that end up in your bank account at the end of the month but by the value it adds to your life. What remains after you stop working is the true image of what you were doing.

Have you ever thought of being an employer? Certainly! I sincerely hope that you are concerned about what you do in life as this can enable you to work excellently for your company/employer and even more importantly, position yourself in a way that allows you to spot and take advantage of opportunities which seem small when coming and mighty when vanishing. Your life should be your top priority since your job will be more fulfilling when you understand where it is in the list of what matters.

We should ask ourselves this question:”If there were no money in life such that I had all I needed, what would I do with my life?” Many people are driven by what they get out of their jobs but fail to think deeply about how that job makes their lives better and more meaningful. I have come to realize that in most cases, our job /career path conflicts with our talent(s), gifts or abilities and in this competitive world, we do not want to take the time to think about what we can do best – we instead only find time just to think about what we are doing and not what we can do. I have met very few people who are worried by their stagnated talents but I have come across thousands who are worried about their jobs and careers. People must work and people must live! Your life is too precious and excessively broad to be occupied by just your job.

Take charge of your life! and desire to achieve work life equilibrium. Be the master of what you do rather than a victim of what society thinks you should do. One of the biggest challenges for any employee is to know why they are working and understand how their job blends in with their lives. The fact is it is a journey that never comes to an end but it has different degrees of success. Work can never be equated with life.

Life is beyond comparison with any component of it including family, relationships, careers, spirituality etc. All these are just small portions of life; variables in a infinite equation i.e. if Life equation is as follows, Y= X1+X2+X3+X4……..Xn ,then work is just that X1 and then it would be impossible to say that Y=X1 unless all other variables are Zeros. We need to balance our lives as it depends on so many factors and all are important for it to make a logical sense. Life can be compared to the body. 1 Cor 12:14, 17, 21, 26 says, “For the body itself is not made up of one part, but many parts. If the whole body was just an eye, how could it hear? And if it was only an ear, how could it smell? So then, the eye cannot say to the hand I don’t need you. If one part of the body suffers, all the other parts suffer with it; if one part is praised all the other parts share its happiness.”

A person may live without work but you will never find a person working without life. Most people are struggling with life not because they have fewer hours or more work to do but because they are not alert of how life is. Life is not work. You can have people living without work but you will never see a person working without life. That’s so obvious when said but not so when thought about. Work is divine.

All the same, it can be expensive if we lose all our earning on lifestyle diseases. It does not add value to life either, if glorifying our occupation will make us lose our children to immorality. The saddest thing is when families break up and down just because we didn’t give them time when they needed us most. What do we gain if we own all the money in the bank and lose something that does not even have a price-tag? Love your Job! Embrace Your Job! BUT REMEMBER to Love your life and Live it. Work is not measured by what we earn, but by the value it adds to our life.